Kohteliaan

Kohteliaan is a Finnish word that translates to polite or courteous in English. It is an adjective used to describe behavior or language that is considered socially acceptable, respectful, and considerate of others. The concept of kohteliaisuus, or politeness, is an important aspect of Finnish social etiquette, although it is often expressed in a more reserved manner compared to some other cultures.

In Finnish culture, politeness can manifest in various ways. This includes showing respect for personal space, speaking softly, avoiding unnecessary interruptions, and expressing gratitude. While overt displays of effusiveness might be less common, a quiet and sincere politeness is highly valued. For example, saying "kiitos" (thank you) for even small favors is a fundamental aspect of being kohtelias.

The word kohtelias can be applied to a wide range of situations, from everyday interactions with strangers to more formal settings. A kohtelias person is generally perceived as someone who is mindful of the feelings and needs of others, contributing to a harmonious social environment. It is a descriptor that reflects an internalized sense of social responsibility and good manners. The opposite of kohtelias would be epäkohtelias, meaning impolite or rude.