Doting

Doting refers to excessive and often uncritical affection or adoration shown toward a person or thing. It is commonly directed by a caregiver or partner toward someone they love, such as a child, spouse, elderly relative, or pet. Depending on context, doting can carry a positive connotation of warmth and devoted care, or a negative one of overindulgence that can limit independence or foster dependency.

As a verb, to dote means to show excessive fondness or to be lavishly attentive. The phrase dote on is common: "She dotes on her grandson" or "He dotes on his dog." In many families, doting parents or grandparents are described as warm and nurturing, but persistent overindulgence can undermine discipline and autonomy.

As an adjective, doting describes someone who gives affectionate attention in a way that may seem excessive. A "doting mother" or "doting husband" is often portrayed as loving, even if their behavior borders on smothering.

Etymology: the word comes from the verb dote, with roots in older senses of foolishness or weakness of mind, and has since shifted to denote excessive affection rather than folly.

Context and impact: cultural norms influence how doting is perceived. In healthy relationships, doting warmth accompanies appropriate boundaries. In others, it can blur limits, contribute to entitlement, or mask controlling behavior. Professionals note balance between warmth and autonomy as key to sustainable care.