Allosexuality

Allosexuality is the term used to describe the experience of sexual attraction to others. It is commonly used to distinguish people who experience sexual desire from those who do not, such as asexual individuals. Allosexuality is not a single sexual orientation in itself; rather, it describes a pattern of sexual attraction. The term is often used in discussions within asexual and broader LGBTQ+ communities to highlight the distinction between experiencing attraction and not experiencing it.

Etymology and scope: The word allosexual comes from allos, a Greek root meaning “other,” combined with sexual. It is a descriptive label for individuals who have sexual attraction, regardless of whom that attraction is directed toward. It can encompass heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, pansexual, and other orientations, as well as varying levels of attraction, including those who experience attraction only under certain conditions—a nuance sometimes associated with demisexuality.

Allonormativity and social context: In sociocultural discussions, allosexuality is used to examine allonormativity—the expectation that sexual attraction is universal and central to human experience. This can influence how people perceive their own desires, how others respond to them, and how dating norms, media portrayals, and social pressures shape behavior.

Overlap and debate: Some argue that distinguishing allosexual from asexual helps validate diverse experiences and reduce invisibility; others contend that it risks reinforcing binary thinking or adding labels that some find unnecessary. The term is primarily a descriptive tool rather than a rigid identity, and individuals may identify as allosexual, alloromantic, or choose to describe their experiences without a label.