aromanticism

Aromanticism is a romantic orientation defined by the lack of experiencing romantic attraction to others. It is distinct from sexual orientation and from general emotional temperament. Many aromantic people form close, nonromantic bonds and attachments. Aromanticism is not a disorder or a choice, but a pattern of attraction and desire.

Within the spectrum, experiences vary. Gray-aromantic describes those who experience romantic attraction rarely or under specific circumstances. Demiromantic describes attraction only after a strong emotional bond. Lithromantic describes those who feel attraction but lose interest if it is reciprocated. Some identify simply as aromantic without a sublabel, while others use aro-ace to note concurrent asexuality.

Relationships for aromantic people often center on deep platonic friendships, family-like partnerships, and chosen families. Some pursue dating or marriage for companionship or practical reasons without romantic motivations. Sexual orientation is independent of aromanticism; an aromantic person may be heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, asexual, or any other orientation. The boundaries between love, affection, and romance vary by person.

History and community awareness grew through LGBTQ+ spaces and online discussion in the late 20th and early 21st centuries. The community promotes visibility, education, and inclusive language to describe diverse patterns of attraction. A commonly used symbol is the aromantic pride flag, employed by some but not all who identify as aromantic.

Prevalence estimates vary and robust data are limited. Aromantic people constitute a minority in many populations, but precise numbers are difficult to determine due to differing definitions and social factors. Recognition and understanding have increased in recent years, contributing to more inclusive discussions about love, relationships, and identity.