Pushy

Pushy is an informal adjective used to describe a person whose behavior is aggressively self-assertive and insistent, often to the point of intrusiveness or boundary-crossing. The term carries a negative connotation and is typically applied when someone presses for action or information in a way that disregards others’ preferences or consent. While pushiness can reflect persistence or enthusiasm, it is commonly interpreted as a lack of tact or respect for social norms.

Pushy behavior is frequently discussed in relation to sales and marketing, dating and romantic contexts, and workplace interactions. Common traits include persistent requests, interrupting others, framing advice as an order, and implying or coercing a decision. Examples include a salesperson who continues to press after a refusal, a colleague who repeatedly pushes for an early deadline, or someone who makes unsolicited judgments or personal topics.

Originating from the verb push with the -y suffix, pushy is a term used in English, predominantly in American and British usage. It is generally considered pejorative, describing behavior rather than a fixed personality type. The contrast with more neutral terms like assertive or determined highlights how pushiness is often judged by context, tone, and respect for boundaries. In some settings, directness is valued, but pushiness implies an unwanted pressure or disregard for others’ autonomy.

People who encounter pushy behavior may respond by setting boundaries, clearly stating refusals, or disengaging. Understanding the line between healthy persistence and pushiness can aid in communication and conflict avoidance.