tactloos

Tactloos is an adjective used to describe behavior or communication that lacks tact, sensitivity, or consideration for others' feelings. The term derives from Dutch, with tact meaning sensitivity and loos meaning without.

Common features include blunt or abrupt statements, unsolicited criticism, interrupting others, oversharing sensitive topics, or insulting remarks made without awareness of consequences.

Causes can include personality traits such as low empathy or high impulsivity, situational stress, or cultural norms that reward directness. Tactless behavior can occur in private or public settings and can be reinforced by anonymity or power dynamics.

Effects can range from embarrassment and strained relationships to loss of trust or professional consequences. Mitigation involves developing audience awareness, pausing before speaking, choosing neutral language, framing comments constructively, and apologizing when harm is done. Improving listening skills and asking clarifying questions also helps.

See also: tact, diplomacy, social skills, communication.