selfcentered

Selfcentered is commonly written as self-centered, though the form selfcentered is also encountered. It is an adjective used to describe a person or behavior that is preoccupied with oneself, often prioritizing one’s own needs, desires, and perspectives over those of others. In everyday language the term carries a negative connotation and signals a pattern that can range from situational self-focus to persistent traits.

In psychology and discourse, self-centeredness is related to egocentrism—the tendency to view the world from one’s own point of view. In adults, persistent self-centered behavior may overlap with narcissistic traits or other personality patterns, but these are clinical concepts that require careful evaluation. The term itself remains informal and value-laden, useful for describing impressions rather than diagnosing conditions.

Common signs include dominating conversations, interrupting others, showing little empathy or concern for others’ feelings, and assuming one’s own experiences are universal. Self-centered behavior can arise from insecurity, stress, social environment, or learned habits, and it may be either situational or chronic. Its impact on relationships often includes conflict, reduced trust, and social friction.

Not all self-focus is harmful; healthy self-advocacy and personal boundaries are distinct from self-centeredness. To reduce self-centered tendencies, people can practice active listening, perspective-taking, validate others’ experiences, seek feedback, and cultivate humility. In cases where such behavior significantly impairs functioning or relationships, professional guidance may be beneficial.