himedere

Himedere is a female character archetype in Japanese media characterized by a princess-like demeanor. A himedere behaves as if she holds royal status and expects others to treat her with deference and to cater to her needs. She typically speaks with refined language, carries herself with aristocratic bearing, and may require companions or romantic partners to defer to her wishes. The trope can range from light-hearted to domineering, and is often used to create social tension or romantic comedy. Some portrayals also reveal vulnerability beneath the poised exterior.

Etymology and relation to other dere types: the term combines hime, meaning princess, with dere, a suffix used for various affection-oriented archetypes in otaku culture. Like other “dere” types, himedere appears across genres such as anime, manga, light novels, and dating sims, and is frequently discussed in fan communities. It is a recognisable facet of the broader dere family, which includes variants such as tsundere and kudere, each defined by a specific pattern of behavior.

Characteristics and portrayal: typical traits include an aristocratic aura, formal speech, and a tendency to demand courtesy and service from others. A himedere may be aloof or even imperious, yet a softer or more affectionate side can emerge toward a trusted person. In many works, the trope is used to explore power dynamics in relationships, or to subvert expectations by revealing the character’s underlying insecurities or genuine care.

In media and culture: the trope appears across anime, manga, and related media, often as a vehicle for romance, comedy, or social satire. Critics note that it can be a cliché when overused, but when well written it provides a distinctive contrast between outward regal behavior and inner vulnerability.