artighet

Artighet is a term used primarily in Scandinavian languages to describe the quality of being polite, well-mannered, and considerate in social interactions. It denotes civility, proper conduct, and respect for others, both in everyday exchanges and in more formal settings. In many contexts, artighet functions as a social norm that guides behavior from childhood through adulthood, shaping how individuals interact within families, schools, workplaces, and public life.

Etymology and linguistic notes indicate that artighet derives from the adjective artig, meaning well-behaved or proper, with the suffix -het forming an abstract noun. It is closely related to the Swedish och Norwegian terms artighet and shares roots with cognate words in other Germanic languages. The concept appears in etiquette literature and discussions of social norms dating back to medieval and early modern periods, though its precise connotations have evolved with changes in society.

Usage and scope typically cover behavior that is respectful, considerate, and non-disruptive. Artighet can apply to individuals and to collective groups or institutions that model or enforce courteous conduct. In practice, it encompasses manners, restraint, listening, and deference to others’ needs or boundaries, while still allowing for appropriate assertiveness in different settings.

Cultural variation and critique accompany the concept. While widely valued for promoting social harmony and predictable interactions, artighet can reflect particular cultural expectations about gender roles, hierarchy, and conformity. Contemporary discussions sometimes challenge rigid interpretations, arguing that a strict emphasis on artighet may suppress individuality or insulate power dynamics; others argue it remains a foundation for mutual respect and cooperation.

See also etiquette, civility, manners.