Permittiivisyyttä

Permittiivisyyttä, often translated as permissiveness, refers to a parenting style characterized by low demands and high responsiveness. Permissive parents tend to be nurturing and communicative, but they set few rules or expectations for their children's behavior. They often avoid confrontation and may give in to their children's wishes easily, prioritizing their child's happiness and friendship over discipline.

This approach can stem from various factors, including a desire to avoid repeating harsh parenting experiences from their own childhoods, a belief that children should have freedom, or a difficulty in establishing and enforcing boundaries. While permissive parenting can foster creativity and self-expression in children, it can also lead to challenges. Children raised in such environments may struggle with self-control, impulse management, and respecting authority. They might exhibit behavioral issues, have difficulty in academic settings, and face challenges in social interactions due to a lack of established limits and consequences.

Research on the long-term effects of permissiveness suggests a correlation with lower academic achievement, higher rates of delinquency, and difficulties in developing social competence. It is important to note that permissiveness exists on a spectrum, and some children may thrive with a more relaxed approach if other factors, such as strong parental love and support, are present. However, most developmental psychologists advocate for a more authoritative parenting style, which balances high demands with high responsiveness, as it tends to yield more positive outcomes for child development.