stjärtförare

Stjärtförare is a Swedish term that literally translates to "tail driver." It refers to a person who is excessively controlling or attempts to dictate the actions or decisions of others, particularly in a way that is seen as overly meddlesome or overbearing. The implication is that the "stjärtförare" is trying to steer or control the "tail," which represents the less significant or dependent part of a situation or a person's life.

This behavior is often characterized by a lack of respect for the autonomy of others. A stjärtförare might constantly offer unsolicited advice, try to micromanage tasks, or make decisions on behalf of others without consulting them. While sometimes the intention might be to help or guide, the execution often comes across as intrusive and dismissive of the other person's capabilities.

The term is generally used in informal contexts and carries a negative connotation. It is not a formal psychological or sociological term but rather a colloquial expression used to describe a particular type of interpersonal dynamic. Identifying someone as a stjärtförare is a way of expressing frustration with their controlling tendencies and a desire for them to allow others more freedom and independence. The opposite of a stjärtförare would be someone who is supportive and respects boundaries.