handleseither

handleseither is a term that emerged within online communities, particularly on platforms like Reddit and Discord, to describe a specific type of online interaction or behavior. It refers to situations where an individual or a group expresses a strong, often polarized, opinion or stance on a particular issue, but then, when presented with counterarguments or alternative perspectives, adopts a passive, non-committal, or evasive approach.

The core of handleseither lies in the contrast between an initial assertive declaration and a subsequent lack of engagement with the implications of that declaration. Instead of defending their original position with reasoned arguments or acknowledging the validity of opposing viewpoints, individuals exhibiting this behavior might resort to phrases like "I don't really want to get into it," "It is what it is," or simply disengage from the conversation altogether. This often leaves the other party feeling frustrated, as the initial strong statement appears to have been made without a genuine willingness to discuss or debate.

The term is not typically used in a formal academic or professional context but is a more informal descriptor for a common social dynamic observed in online discussions. It can sometimes be associated with online arguments that quickly reach an impasse or where participants appear more interested in stating their opinion than in reaching a mutual understanding or resolution. The motivation behind handleseither can vary, ranging from a desire to avoid conflict to a perceived lack of ability or willingness to articulate a defense of one's stance.