Limerenderia

Limerenderia is a term used to describe a specific type of romantic attraction. It refers to the experience of developing romantic feelings for someone who has already expressed romantic interest in the subject. In essence, limerenderia is about the romantic attraction that arises *after* the other person has made their feelings known. It is distinct from simply liking someone, as the reciprocal nature of the acknowledged affection is a key component.

The term itself is a portmanteau, combining "limerence," a state of intense infatuation, with "apologia," meaning a public apology or defense, although the latter part of the word is often reinterpreted in this context to mean "their" or "owned by them," referring to the other person's expressed feelings. This nuance is important, as it highlights that the attraction is a response to an existing romantic gesture or declaration.

Individuals experiencing limerenderia may find themselves increasingly drawn to the person who has shown them affection. This attraction can manifest in various ways, from heightened thoughts about the person to a desire for companionship and a deeper connection. It is not necessarily a pre-existing crush that is solidified by the other person's interest, but rather a new or growing romantic feeling that is directly influenced by their acknowledged feelings. The phenomenon is a subject of discussion within communities exploring diverse forms of attraction and romantic experiences.