zeppo

Zeppo is a slang term, particularly prevalent in certain online communities and among younger demographics, that describes someone who is perceived as overly eager, subservient, or accommodating to others, especially in romantic or social contexts. The term often implies a lack of self-respect or an excessive desire for approval, to the point of being seen as a "yes-man" or someone who will go to great lengths to please someone else.

The origin of the term is somewhat debated, but it is widely believed to have evolved from the character Zeppo Marx, the youngest of the Marx Brothers. While Zeppo was a performer and part of a famous comedic act, his role was often less comedic and more of a straight man or romantic lead compared to his brothers. Some interpretations suggest that his more conventional persona, or perhaps his perceived lack of the same comedic genius as his siblings, led to the term's association with someone who is less distinctive or who plays a secondary, less assertive role.

The usage of "zeppo" is generally considered pejorative, indicating a negative judgment of the person's behavior. It is often used in discussions about dating, social dynamics, and perceived power imbalances. While it can be used humorously, its underlying meaning is critical of someone's lack of assertiveness or perceived desperation. The term's popularity can fluctuate within different online subcultures.