kinderwens

Kinderwunsch, often translated as the desire for children, is a motivational state in which individuals or couples want to have offspring. In German-speaking psychology and demography, the term encompasses both the intention to become a parent and the anticipation of raising children. It is distinct from actual fertility or completed family size, though it strongly influences reproductive behavior.

A variety of factors shape the strength and timing of the Kinderwunsch. Age, gender, partnership status, and perceived economic security are common influences, along with education, career plans, housing, and access to childcare. Cultural norms, religious beliefs, social expectations, and public policies—such as parental leave, child benefits, and affordable childcare—also play important roles. Researchers typically measure Kinderwunsch through surveys that assess whether people want children, how soon they would like them, and how certain they feel about that desire. Desires can change over time due to life events, relationships, finances, health, and changes in policy or social context.

In population studies, Kinderwunsch helps explain fertility rates and family formation patterns. A strong desire to have children can persist even when fertility is limited by infertility or other barriers, while some individuals may have ambivalent or low desires yet still become parents due to partner influence or social pressure. Cultural variation is significant: some regions emphasize family expansion and pronatalist norms, while others emphasize individual choice and career development, leading to different average levels and timings of Kinderwunsch. Policymakers consider this concept alongside economic and social factors when addressing demographic trends and family support.