gracious

Gracious is an adjective used to describe a person’s behavior toward others as courteous, kind, and considerate, often with a sense of generosity or mercy. It implies a demeanor that is warm and respectful, not merely formal. In everyday use, a gracious person responds with tact and patience, while a gracious host makes guests feel welcome and at ease. Gracious can also convey a spirit of forgiveness or generosity in difficult situations, suggesting restraint and goodwill rather than harsh judgment.

Etymology and senses: The word comes from Old French gracieux, via Latin gratus meaning pleasing or agreeable. In English, gracious has long carried notions of pleasing conduct, generosity, and benevolence. It frequently appears in phrases such as gracious host, gracious recipient, or gracious farewell, underscoring a positive, accommodating attitude. The adverb graciously and the noun graciousness derive from the same root.

Usage and nuance: Gracious is often used in formal or polite speech, and can express warmth beyond basic courtesy. In religious or ceremonial language, phrases like gracious God or gracious Lord appear, while in modern hospitality it signifies genuine kindness and hospitality. The term can also carry a slightly elevated or old-fashioned tone, depending on context.

Related terms include grace, graciousness, benevolence, courtesy, and cordiality. See also etiquette, hospitality, and polite speech.