godmother

A godmother is a woman who serves as a sponsor at a child’s baptism or christening and who, in many Christian traditions, undertakes a role of spiritual guidance and moral support in the child’s life. Godparents may accompany the child to sacraments, assist the parents in teaching faith, and be a visible example of Christian life.

The term derives from the practice of appointing a spiritual sponsor who stands with the child during baptism and promises to aid in the child’s religious upbringing. The gendered form mirrors godfather and reflects historic sponsorship in Christian rites.

In Catholicism and Eastern Orthodoxy, godparents must be baptized Christians; at least one sponsor, sometimes two, is typically chosen, often representing each gender. They must intend to undertake the responsibilities and meet specific requirements set by their church. In Catholic canon law, sponsors must be at least 16, baptized, confirmed, not be the child’s parent, and be a Catholic in good standing, among other criteria.

In Protestant denominations, requirements for godparents vary and some traditions do not require formal sponsorship. In modern usage, the role often extends beyond religious rites as social mentors, guarantors of moral support, or trusted mentors in the child’s life. Legally, godparents usually have no automatic rights or duties unless designated by a will or guardianship arrangement; the title carries ceremonial and social significance, but does not by itself confer guardianship.