faddere

Faddere is the plural of fadder, a Norwegian and Danish term for a person who acts as a sponsor or godparent for a child, especially in connection with baptism. The role is rooted in Christian traditions and remains common in Nordic countries, although the exact practices vary by denomination and local custom.

In the baptismal ceremony, faddere pledge to support the child’s religious upbringing and spiritual welfare. They stand with the child and the parents during the rite and often participate in presenting the child to the church. Beyond the ceremony, faddere may be expected to provide guidance, mentorship, and practical support in the child’s early years, though the level of ongoing involvement differs among families and communities.

Selection and requirements: Parents normally choose one or more godparents, frequently from among family members or close friends. Some churches have rules about who may serve as a sponsor, such as being a baptized Christian, being an adult, or meeting other church-specific criteria. In Catholic settings, there are often specific guidelines about the number and sometimes the gender of sponsors, though practices can differ by jurisdiction.

Variations: While the concept originates from Christian baptism, the role of faddere can also appear in naming ceremonies and other rites of passage, sometimes in secular or non-religious contexts where the emphasis is on community support rather than religious duties. In contemporary Nordic societies, the role is often symbolic, focusing on presence and encouragement rather than formal obligations.