eyang

Eyang is an informal honorific term used in Indonesia and among Malay-speaking communities to refer to an elder relative, especially a grandparent. It is commonly employed by younger family members as a sign of affection and respect, and it can be directed toward both grandmothers and grandfathers.

Etymology and usage context. The term originates in Javanese and has been absorbed into Indonesian as a familiar, respectful address for older family members. Unlike more formal titles such as kakek (grandfather) or nenek (grandmother), eyang conveys warmth and closeness and is often used within the home or in informal community settings.

How it is used. Yuong children may call a grandparent directly as “Eyang” or attach it to a name, for example, “Eyang Sulastri” or simply “Eyang,” followed by a request or greeting, such as “Eyang, mari makan.” The form is gender-neutral and can be applied to both grandmothers and grandfathers, though individual families may have preferences for which title is used in various contexts.

Cultural context. The term reflects the cultural importance of honoring older generations and preserving family ties. It is widely used in traditional households and remains common in rural and urban Indonesia, as well as among Indonesian communities abroad that maintain cultural language practices.

Modern usage. In contemporary media and literature, eyang appears as a character role denoting wisdom and elder guidance. It continues to function as a living term of respect in daily speech, while also serving as a nostalgic link to traditional family structures.

See also: Kakek, Nenek, Oma, Opa.