Nenek

Nenek is a term in Indonesian and Malay that means grandmother. It is used to refer to one’s grandmother or to an elderly woman in a respectful or affectionate way. The word is common across Indonesia and Malaysia, though pronunciation and usage can vary by dialect and family tradition. In everyday speech, nenek can function as a familial address and may also be employed more generally to show respect to an older woman, independent of blood relation.

Cultural role: In many communities, grandmothers are central figures in family life. They are traditionally associated with caregiving, storytelling, and the transmission of family history, language, and culinary traditions. Nenek often provide guidance on customs and rituals and may play a key role in the upbringing of grandchildren.

Variations and related terms: The phrase nenek moyang refers to ancestors, reflecting the broader sense in which elder generations are valued. Regional dialects may have alternative terms for grandmothers, and social contexts (such as formal settings) may use more formal titles.

See also: Grandmother, Nenek moyang.