etikettidega

Etikettidega is a Hungarian concept that refers to the art of using etiquette as a means of social control. The term roughly translates to "etiquette-consciousness" or "rule-abiding behavior". In everyday usage, it is often compared to the concept of enkulturálizálás, which implies being socialized into certain norms and rules that dictate how one should behave in different social situations.

The term etikettidega gained popularity in the 1980s in Hungary as a way to describe individuals who adhered to certain social norms, even if these rules were considered superficial or overbearing. People who are seen as etikettidega are often those who follow the rules and expectations set by societal norms, even if they do not necessarily believe in them. This can manifest in various aspects of life, from following formal dress codes to engaging in polite conversation.

Etikettidega has both positive and negative connotations. On one hand, it can be seen as a way to establish social harmony and maintain a sense of order in society. On the other hand, it can imply a superficiality or lack of authenticity in an individual's behavior. Some people view etikettidega as a necessary aspect of social interaction, while others see it as a way to control and manipulate individuals into conforming to certain norms.

The concept of etikettidega is closely tied to broader social and cultural discussions about conformity, authenticity, and individual freedom in Hungarian society. It reflects a complex and nuanced view of social norms and expectations in a Post-Communist society that continues to grapple with the legacies of its past.