dominatrix

A dominatrix is a person, typically a woman, who takes the dominant role in BDSM activities. In a negotiated power exchange, she directs the actions, dynamics, and rules of the scene or relationship for a submissive partner. The term can describe either a private dynamic between consenting adults or a professional service offered for compensation. Alternatives used include domme, mistress, or female dominant.

Common practices associated with dominatrices involve aspects of control, discipline, and role-play. Activities may include bondage, discipline, sensation play, command-based behavior, and psychological dynamics. Because BDSM emphasizes consent, relationships with a dominatrix are typically built on explicit negotiation of boundaries, limits, and desired outcomes.

Safety and ethics are central to the role. Practitioners and clients commonly establish safewords, clear boundaries, and aftercare to address physical and emotional well-being. Concepts such as safe, sane, and consensual (SSC) and risk-aware consensual kink (RACK) are often referenced in communities to guide practice.

Historically, dominants of various genders have appeared in BDSM contexts, but the term dominatrix specifically highlights a female-presenting dominant. In contemporary culture, dominatrices may work in private settings, professional studios, or online spaces, sometimes offering sessions by appointment. Public representation varies widely, reflecting broader social attitudes toward sexuality and power dynamics.

Overall, a dominatrix is defined by consent-based role fulfillment within BDSM, focusing on negotiated control, respect for boundaries, and mutual psychological and physical safety.