courteously

Courteously is an adverb that describes performing an action in a manner that shows courtesy. It modifies verbs, indicating polite consideration toward others. It is commonly found in formal writing, historical accounts, or narration aiming for a measured tone. In everyday speech, speakers more often employ synonyms such as politely or civilly, but courteously remains acceptable and precise when a measured, genteel register is desired. For example: “She spoke courteously to the receptionist,” or “They were courteously greeted at the door.”

Courteously derives from the adjective courteous, which comes from Old French curteis, related to the concept of courtly behavior and courtesy. The term is historically linked to manners associated with chivalry and refined social conduct, and its meaning has broadened in modern English to denote general politeness. The adverbial form was formed with the common -ly suffix to indicate manner of action.

Usage notes and related terms: courteously is most at home in formal prose, academic writing, or narrative passages that aim for a precise, respectful tone. In everyday conversation, speakers typically use politely or civilly. Although similar to courteous, the adverb emphasizes manner rather than the quality of the person. Synonyms include politely, civilly, and graciously; potential antonyms are rude or discourteously.