benehmen

Benehmen is a German noun meaning conduct or behavior, particularly the outward manner in which a person behaves in social situations. It covers manners, politeness, and propriety, and is often contrasted with rudeness or impropriety. The related verb sich benehmen (to behave oneself) is commonly used to comment on how a person conducts themselves.

In everyday language, gute Benehmen refers to good manners, such as polite greetings, listening when others speak, keeping one’s voice at an appropriate level, and respecting personal space. Poor or inappropriate Benehmen is described as schlechtes Benehmen and is typically judged in family life, schools, workplaces, and public settings.

Within German-speaking cultures, Benehmen is intertwined with etiquette and social norms. Guides on Benimmregeln or Knigge-style advice have historically shaped expectations for how people should present themselves in different contexts, from family meals to business negotiations.

Cross-cultural note: Standards of Benehmen vary across cultures and eras; what is considered proper can differ by setting, region, and changing social expectations.

Examples of usage include statements like: he behaves in an exemplary manner or, conversely, his Benehmen left something to be desired. The term remains a core part of discussions about manners, social interaction, and the expectations placed on individuals in various social environments.