attentionseeking

Attentionseeking is a behavioral pattern characterized by a persistent effort to attract notice, approval, or admiration from others. The term is used across psychology, psychiatry, and popular discourse to describe actions aimed at becoming the focus of attention in social, educational, or professional settings.

Common manifestations include dramatic or flamboyant displays, excessive talkativeness, self-promotion, frequent emotional displays, or creating situations that guarantee attention. With the rise of social media, attentionseeking can also involve posting provocative content, seeking validation through likes and comments, and online attention-seeking behaviors amplified by digital feedback loops.

Causes are varied and can include normal developmental needs for belonging and self-esteem, insecure attachment, or coping strategies for stress or rejection. In some individuals, attentionseeking behavior may be associated with mental health conditions, including histrionic personality traits, narcissistic tendencies, or mood or anxiety disorders, though attentionseeking itself is not a diagnosis.

Clinical and educational professionals often distinguish between adaptive forms of seeking support and maladaptive patterns that interfere with functioning or relationships. Interventions emphasize understanding underlying needs, teaching healthy communication, setting consistent boundaries, and, when appropriate, psychotherapy or family-based approaches.

Related topics include attention economy and social validation.