arvelebise

Arvelebise is a term that has emerged in recent years, primarily within online discourse and certain subcultures, to describe a specific type of social or emotional behavior. It generally refers to a situation where an individual appears to be "using up" or "spending" their emotional or social capital without reciprocal engagement or contribution from others. This can manifest in various ways, such as consistently seeking validation or attention without offering it in return, repeatedly sharing personal problems without taking advice or showing progress, or expecting significant support or effort from others in relationships that are otherwise one-sided.

The concept suggests a depletion of resources, akin to a financial balance running low. When someone is perceived as arvelebise, it implies they are drawing heavily on the goodwill, patience, or emotional energy of those around them. This behavior can lead to feelings of exhaustion or resentment in the people interacting with the individual exhibiting these tendencies. While not a formal psychological term, it serves as a shorthand for describing a perceived imbalance in interpersonal dynamics, highlighting a pattern of taking without giving. The term is often used informally to express frustration or to identify a relationship dynamic that feels unsustainable or unfair.