allism

Allism is a term used to describe the systemic assumption that everyone is allosexual, meaning that everyone experiences sexual attraction. It is considered a form of compulsory heterosexuality or compulsory sexuality, as it implies that sexual attraction is a universal experience and that individuals who do not experience it are deviating from a norm. The concept of allism arises from the understanding that societal structures and expectations are often built around the premise of sexual attraction being a fundamental aspect of human identity and relationships.

This assumption can lead to the marginalization and invalidation of individuals who identify as asexual or on the asexual spectrum. Asexuality is characterized by a lack of sexual attraction to others, though individuals on the asexual spectrum may still experience romantic attraction or other forms of attraction. When allism is prevalent, asexual individuals may face misunderstanding, pressure to conform to sexual norms, or have their experiences dismissed as a phase, a medical issue, or a lack of effort.

The critique of allism highlights how societal norms can inadvertently create barriers for those who do not fit a particular mold. It encourages a broader understanding of human experience and relationships, recognizing that sexual attraction is not a prerequisite for a fulfilling life or meaningful connections. By acknowledging and challenging allism, advocates aim to create a more inclusive society that respects diverse orientations and experiences of attraction.