Swingers

Swingers is a term used to describe individuals or couples who participate in consensual non-monogamy by engaging in sexual activities with other couples or partners outside their primary relationship. In swinging, participants typically maintain a primary relationship while opening aspects of their sex life to others, with an emphasis on consent, communication, and negotiated boundaries. Activities may include partner-swapping, group play, or attending organized events such as private parties or swinger clubs.

Settings range from private residences to dedicated venues, hotels, or online communities and meetups. Communities often stress privacy, discretion, etiquette, and mutual respect. Common terminology includes soft swap, where partners may watch or touch but do not have sex with each other, and full swap, involving sexual activity with others. Demographics are diverse, though swinging has historically been described as more common among heterosexual couples; single participants and LGBTQ+ couples also participate.

Legal and cultural environments vary by country and community, with safety and consent as central concerns. Health considerations include practicing safer sex, regular STI testing, and ongoing conversations about boundaries and emotional readiness. Critics and supporters describe swinging differently; some view it as a relationship enhancement or social activity, while others see it as challenging to longtime commitments. Research on prevalence and motivations exists but findings vary by method and sample.