pulmapidu

Pulmapidu is the wedding reception held in Estonia after the marriage ceremony. The term literally translates to “wedding party” and denotes the social celebration where family, friends, and the couple come together to mark the occasion. While customs vary by region and family, pulmapidu generally centers on hospitality and communal celebration.

A typical pulmapidu is hosted at a venue such as a restaurant, hotel, or private hall and is organized by the couple or their families. The program commonly includes a welcome or drinks reception, a formal meal or buffet, and toasts to the couple from relatives or close friends. Speeches, the couple’s first dance, and dancing after the meal are common elements, followed by dessert or a cake-cutting ceremony and coffee service. The length of the celebration can range from a few hours to an extended evening or night party.

Etiquette and organization emphasize planning, invitations, and hospitality. Attire is usually formal or semi-formal, though some weddings may adopt a more casual or traditional style. Hosts may thank guests during the event and guide the flow of activities, ensuring meals and entertainment proceed smoothly. In rural areas or among different communities, regional folk music, dancing, or customs may be incorporated.

The specifics of pulmapidu can reflect religious beliefs, personal preferences, and local traditions, but the underlying purpose remains a shared celebration of the newlyweds with their community. Related topics include Estonian wedding traditions and wedding cuisine.