parentcentered

parentcentered is a term used to describe an approach to child-rearing or education where the needs, desires, and opinions of the parents are prioritized above all else. This philosophy often emphasizes parental authority and decision-making as paramount, with the child's role being primarily to comply with parental directives. In a parentcentered model, parents are seen as the ultimate arbiters of what is best for their child, and their own goals and values are often projected onto the child's development and life choices.

This approach can manifest in various ways, from deciding on educational paths and extracurricular activities to shaping social circles and future career aspirations. The focus is on the parent's vision for their child, rather than on fostering the child's independent development of their own interests and autonomy. While parents naturally play a crucial role in their children's lives, a strictly parentcentered perspective may limit opportunities for children to explore their own identities and make their own choices, potentially leading to a lack of self-reliance or difficulty in adapting to situations outside of parental guidance.

In contrast to childcentered approaches, which prioritize the child's individual needs and development, or other family models, parentcenteredness places the parent at the core of the family dynamic. The rationale behind this philosophy can stem from various cultural, religious, or personal beliefs about parental responsibility and the ideal upbringing. It is important to distinguish this from healthy parental involvement, which is generally considered beneficial for a child's well-being and development.