needer

The term "needer" is a colloquial and often pejorative descriptor for an individual who is perceived as excessively reliant on others for emotional support, validation, or material assistance. It is not a formal psychological or sociological term but rather a subjective label used in informal discourse. The perception of someone as a "needer" typically arises from observed patterns of behavior that suggest a consistent and often disproportionate dependence on external sources.

Such behaviors might include frequent requests for reassurance, a tendency to monopolize conversations with personal problems, or a perceived inability to function independently in various aspects of life. The term is frequently employed in romantic relationships, friendships, and family dynamics, where expectations of mutual support can sometimes be unbalanced.

The label "needer" can be associated with negative connotations, implying a lack of self-sufficiency, maturity, or emotional resilience. It is often used dismissively or judgmentally, and its application can be subjective and influenced by individual perspectives and societal norms regarding independence and self-reliance. While the term itself is informal, the underlying behaviors it describes can sometimes be indicative of underlying psychological issues such as attachment disorders, low self-esteem, or depression, though a diagnosis requires professional assessment.