ingratiatorily

Ingratiatorily is an adverb that describes an action performed in a way intended to gain favor or approval from someone, often through flattery or excessive attentiveness. It suggests a calculated effort to become liked or to win someone over, typically for personal advantage. The term derives from the verb "ingratiate," which means to bring oneself into favor with someone by flattering or trying to please them.

When someone acts ingratiatorily, their behavior is often perceived as insincere or manipulative. The motive behind such actions is to create a positive impression or to curry favor, which can be useful in social, professional, or political contexts. For instance, a subordinate might speak ingratiatorily to their boss, or a politician might address voters ingratiatorily to garner support. The emphasis is on the *manner* of acting, which is designed to elicit a favorable response. While the act of trying to be liked is common, the adverb ingratiatorily specifically points to a deliberate and often transparent attempt to manipulate another's perception through sycophantic or overly accommodating behavior.