ghosting

Ghosting is the act of ending a relationship by abruptly ceasing all communication without explanation. It is most commonly discussed in dating contexts but can also occur in friendships and professional relationships. The term gained prominence with the rise of digital messaging and dating apps, where conversations can be easily paused or discarded without face-to-face confrontation.

The word "ghost" refers to vanishing without trace, and "ghosting" describes someone who disappears as if a ghost. It is used across online platforms and may involve social media, messaging apps, and emails.

Ghosting can occur for a variety of reasons, including avoidance of conflict, fear of rejection, convenience, or perceived asymmetry in the relationship. The behavior reflects broader patterns in digital communication where asynchronous messages allow withdrawal without direct response.

For the recipient, ghosting can cause confusion, disappointment, and damage to self-esteem, and may impact trust in future relationships. Critics argue it is an unreliable and disrespectful form of communication, while others note that it can be seen as a passive withdrawal that perpetuates unhealthy communication norms.

People who are ghosted can seek closure by reflecting on the interaction, talking with trusted friends, and reframing the experience. In relationships or professional contexts, clearer communication and setting boundaries can help reduce occurrences. Platforms and organizations can support users by offering clearer status options and timely updates in recruitment or messaging workflows to discourage or mitigate ghosting.