esterisuhde

esterisuhde is a Finnish term that translates to "ester relationship" or "godparent relationship." It refers to the bond between a godparent and their godchild. This relationship is traditionally established during a Christian baptism or christening ceremony. The godparent, often referred to as a "kummisetä" (godfather) or "kummitäti" (godmother), takes on a significant role in the child's life.

Historically, godparents were expected to provide spiritual guidance and support, acting as a secondary parental figure. They might promise to help raise the child in their faith, offer moral counsel, and be a trusted confidante throughout the child's upbringing. While the religious aspect remains central for many, the modern interpretation of esterisuhde can also encompass a broader, more secular commitment. This can include offering practical help, emotional support, and being a positive influence in the child's life, regardless of religious observance.

The selection of godparents is often a deliberate choice by the parents, who may choose close friends, family members, or individuals they admire and trust to be a positive role model. The godparent is typically expected to be present at important milestones in the child's life, such as birthdays, graduations, and weddings. The esterisuhde signifies a unique and enduring connection, intended to offer the child an additional source of love, guidance, and support beyond their immediate family.