demiromantilisusest

Demiromantilisusest is a romantic orientation characterized by experiencing romantic attraction infrequently or with specific conditions. It falls under the asexual and aromantic spectrums, often described as being on the border between romantic and aromantic identities. Individuals who identify as demiromantic may experience romantic feelings for someone only after forming a strong emotional bond with them, such as a deep friendship. This bond is typically considered a prerequisite for romantic attraction to develop.

The experience of demiromanticism can vary greatly from person to person. Some may feel romantic attraction very rarely, while others might feel it more often but only under specific circumstances. It is not about being picky or having high standards; rather, it is about the nature of how romantic attraction is experienced. A demiromantic person might feel a strong platonic connection and not experience any romantic feelings, but if a deep emotional bond forms, romantic attraction may then arise.

Demiromanticism is distinct from simply not being interested in romance or having aphantasia (inability to visualize). It is about the specific trigger or condition for romantic attraction. It does not preclude enjoying romantic activities or relationships, but the path to feeling romantically inclined is different. Understanding demiromanticism involves recognizing that romantic attraction is not always present or immediate, and for some, it requires a substantial emotional foundation.