Unrequited

Unrequited is an adjective used to describe something that is not returned, repaid, or reciprocated. The term is most commonly associated with affection or love that is not returned by the person at whom it is directed, as in unrequited love.

Origin and usage: The word combines the prefix un- meaning not with requite, a verb meaning to repay or reciprocate a feeling or action. The form entered English in the early modern period and is chiefly applied to emotional contexts, though it can describe other situations in which a response or reward is lacking.

In psychology and everyday language, unrequited love can produce emotional distress and longing. It denotes an asymmetry in investment: one person cherishes and desires a relationship, while the other does not return those feelings. The term is often contrasted with reciprocal or mutual love.

In culture, unrequited love is a persistent theme across literature, drama, and music, reflecting the complexities and pain of unreturned affection. It is used to explore desire, longing, rejection, and resilience.

Related terms include unreciprocated affection, unreturned love, and unfulfilled desire, as well as the broader concept of reciprocity.