Negs

Negs, also known as negative attraction or negative pickup, is a concept within certain seduction and pickup artist communities. It refers to a type of verbal or non-verbal communication intended to elicit a reaction from a target individual by subtly devaluing or teasing them. The underlying theory is that by creating a slight social discomfort or challenge, the target might become more invested in seeking the approval of the person using the neg.

The intention behind using negging is often described as a way to playfully disrupt the target's expectations of being complimented or flattered. It is sometimes framed as a method to test the target's confidence or to appear less overtly interested, thereby increasing perceived value. Negs can range from seemingly innocuous observations about appearance to more pointed, though often veiled, criticisms.

The effectiveness and ethical implications of negging are widely debated. Critics argue that negging is a form of manipulation and psychological gamesmanship that can be emotionally damaging. They contend that it relies on insecurity and can undermine a person's self-esteem. Proponents, however, may view it as a harmless social tactic or a necessary tool for navigating complex social dynamics, particularly in romantic pursuits. The practice is often associated with pickup artist techniques and has been criticized for promoting disrespectful or objectifying behavior.