Koolivalek

Koolivalek is a term used in Estonian to describe a situation where a student deliberately lies to or deceives their parents about their school-related activities or academic performance. This can manifest in various ways, such as fabricating excuses for poor grades, pretending to attend school when they have skipped classes, or creating fictional achievements. The term translates literally to "school lie" or "school faker."

The reasons behind Koolivalek can be complex and vary among individuals. Common motivations include a fear of disappointing parents, avoiding punishment for failing grades or truancy, or pressure to meet parental expectations. In some cases, it may stem from a lack of motivation, learning difficulties that the student is ashamed of, or issues with school social dynamics.

Koolivalek can have significant consequences for both the student and their family. For the student, it can lead to a deterioration of trust with their parents, a perpetuation of poor academic habits, and increased anxiety. For parents, it can result in a false sense of security about their child's education and a delayed intervention when problems arise. Addressing Koolivalek often requires open communication between parents and children, understanding the underlying causes, and seeking support from educators or counselors if necessary.