xyr

Xyr is a neopronoun used in English to refer to a person without specifying gender. It forms part of a broader movement toward gender-inclusive language and is used by some nonbinary and gender-nonconforming individuals. Because neopronouns are chosen by speakers, xyr usage and acceptance vary by context, community, and personal preference. Some people use xyr in addition to or instead of more familiar pronouns such as they/them.

Pronoun sets that include xyr often provide subject, object, possessive determiner, and reflexive forms. A commonly cited set is xe/xem/xyr/xemself: xe is the subject pronoun, xem the object pronoun, xyr the possessive determiner, and xemself the reflexive form. Examples: Xe said xe would arrive. That is xyr book. I spoke to xem. Xe looked at xemself in the mirror.

Origins and reception: Neopronouns such as xyr emerged in online communities before broader recognition. They aim to affirm individual identity and reduce gender assumptions. Their use is supported by some style guides and advocacy groups, but it remains less familiar to many people and may require explanation. Critics argue that unfamiliar pronouns can hinder communication, while supporters view them as a meaningful part of respecting a person’s self-identification.

Variations and notes: There are multiple pronoun sets in use, and individuals may choose forms beyond xe/xem/xyr/xemself. Respect for a person’s stated pronouns is encouraged in inclusive language practices, and individuals may provide guidance on how to pronounce and refer to them. See also: neopronouns; gender identity; inclusive language.