väliskehai

Väliskehai is a term used in Estonia to refer to an individual who has lived abroad for an extended period and, upon returning to Estonia, exhibits behaviors or holds attitudes perceived as foreign or detached from Estonian norms. The word is a compound of "välis" meaning "foreign" and "kehai," a diminutive or slightly condescending form of "inimene" meaning "person."

The concept of väliskehai often carries a somewhat negative connotation, implying that the returnee has become "too foreign" or has lost touch with their Estonian identity. This perception can stem from various factors, including differences in communication style, social habits, opinions on political or social issues, or even a perceived lack of understanding of contemporary Estonian life. The term is generally used in informal contexts and can be a subject of lighthearted banter or, at times, genuine criticism.

Individuals labeled as väliskehai may have spent significant time in countries with different cultural landscapes, leading to the adoption of new perspectives and practices. While some may embrace their Estonian heritage upon return, others might struggle to reintegrate, or their experiences abroad may have fundamentally altered their outlook. The phenomenon highlights the complexities of identity, belonging, and cultural adaptation for those who have lived outside their home country. The perception of a väliskehai is subjective and depends on the observer's own cultural background and expectations.