nonmonogame

Nonmonogame is a term that is not widely standardized in game studies or industry discourse. When used, it typically refers to a game or a design approach that centers or permits non-monogamous relationships—where players may engage with multiple romantic or intimate partners, either simultaneously or across overlapping timelines—and treats those relationships as a core element of gameplay or narrative, rather than as incidental content.

In practice, a nonmonogame may incorporate mechanics and systems that support multi-relationship dynamics. This can include managing time, resources, and emotional factors across several partners; tracking relationship boundaries, consent, and communication; and allowing the outcomes of one relationship to influence others or the overall story. Narrative design might explore themes of jealousy, consent, autonomy, and negotiation, or present polyamorous or non-exclusive relationship scenarios as meaningful choices with tangible consequences.

The term is most often discussed in the context of indie or experimental games, interactive fiction, dating sims, and life-simulation genres. In many mainstream titles, players encounter multiple romance options, but these are not always designed as polyamorous pathways or treated as central aspects of the game. Therefore, not all games with multiple romance options would be labeled nonmonogames; the classification depends on how integral non-monogamous relationships are to gameplay and storytelling.

Critiques of nonmonogame concepts focus on representation, realism, and the potential for sensationalism or reductive portrayals of real-world polyamory. Advocates emphasize the need for nuanced portrayal, consent, and player choice.

See also: polya mory, non-monogamy, dating sims, game design, interactive fiction.