graafmelding

Graafmelding, also known as "graaf" in Dutch, is a traditional Dutch custom of sending a letter to a loved one, typically on the occasion of a birthday or other special event. The practice has its roots in the Dutch language, where "graaf" means "to scratch" or "to scratch out," referring to the act of writing a letter. Graafmelding is often sent anonymously, with the sender's identity kept secret, adding an element of surprise and excitement to the recipient's day.

The letter is usually handwritten and can contain a variety of messages, from heartfelt compliments to humorous or lighthearted remarks. The content of the letter is often playful and lighthearted, reflecting the Dutch culture's emphasis on camaraderie and social bonding. Graafmelding is a popular tradition in the Netherlands, particularly among friends and colleagues, and is seen as a fun and engaging way to celebrate special occasions.

The tradition of graafmelding has evolved over time, with some variations emerging in different regions of the Netherlands. In some areas, the practice has been adapted to include digital formats, such as email or social media messages, to accommodate modern communication preferences. Despite these changes, the core spirit of graafmelding remains the same: a celebration of friendship and the joy of surprise.