dörzsöldése

Dörzsöldése is a Hungarian term that translates to "rubbing it in" or "taunting" in English. It refers to the act of repeatedly reminding someone of a misfortune, failure, or embarrassing situation, often to cause them further distress or to emphasize one's own superiority. This can involve verbally recounting the event, making sarcastic comments, or gloating about a positive outcome that contrasts with the other person's negative experience.

The act of dörzsöldése is generally considered to be socially undesirable and can damage relationships. It stems from a desire to inflict emotional pain or to assert dominance. While sometimes done playfully or with a hint of teasing among close friends, it can quickly become hurtful if not handled with care or if the recipient is particularly sensitive. The intention behind dörzsöldése can vary, from a misguided attempt at humor to genuine malice. It is often associated with schadenfreude, the pleasure derived from another person's misfortune. Recognizing when one is engaging in or is the recipient of dörzsöldése can be important for maintaining healthy interpersonal interactions.