cajoling

Cajoling is a form of persuasion that involves using flattery, gentle appeals, or persistent coaxing to get someone to do something. It is a technique that relies on influencing someone's emotions or desires rather than using force or direct commands. The term often implies a somewhat manipulative approach, but it can also be used in a friendly or affectionate manner.

The act of cajoling typically involves speaking in a soft, persuasive tone and offering reassurances or incentives. A cajoler might compliment the target, emphasize the ease or benefit of the requested action, or appeal to their good nature. The intention is to make the person feel more amenable to the request, often by reducing their resistance or hesitation.

Examples of cajoling can be seen in everyday interactions. A parent might cajole a child into eating vegetables by praising their bravery or promising a treat afterwards. Friends might cajole each other into attending an event by emphasizing how much fun it will be and how much they are wanted. While it can be an effective method of persuasion, the success of cajoling often depends on the relationship between the individuals involved and the perceived sincerity of the cajoler. It differs from outright deception in that it usually doesn't involve outright falsehoods, but rather a skillful manipulation of perception and emotion.