besotted

Besotted is an adjective used to describe someone who is infatuated or completely captivated by another person, often to an excessive degree. It implies a state of being deeply smitten, where rational thought may be overshadowed by strong feelings of affection and admiration. The term suggests a focus so intense that it can sometimes blind the individual to the flaws or realities of the object of their affection.

The word originates from the Old English term "besot," meaning "to make stupid" or "to stupefy." This etymology hints at the idea that being besotted can impair judgment. It is commonly used in contexts related to romantic love, where one person might be described as "besotted with" another. However, it can also be applied more broadly to describe an intense fascination or obsession with something other than a person, such as a hobby or an idea, though this usage is less frequent.

The feeling of being besotted is often associated with the early stages of a romantic relationship, sometimes referred to as the "honeymoon phase." While it can be a positive and exciting experience, the term can also carry a slightly negative connotation, suggesting a lack of moderation or an unrealistic perception. The state is generally understood to be temporary, with feelings often normalizing as a relationship matures or as the object of fascination loses its novelty.