Suhtevaba

Suhtevaba is an Estonian term that translates to "relationship-free" or "non-relationship" in English. It describes a state of being in which an individual chooses not to be in a romantic or committed partnership. This can be a temporary or a long-term personal choice, and the reasons behind it are diverse.

Individuals who identify as suhtevaba may prioritize personal growth, career development, or other life goals that they feel would be hindered by the demands of a relationship. Others may simply enjoy their independence and the freedom to focus on friendships, hobbies, or personal pursuits without the obligations that often come with romantic involvement. It does not necessarily imply an aversion to relationships or intimacy, but rather a conscious decision to not engage in one at a particular time or at all.

The concept can also encompass a broader understanding of social connections, suggesting a focus on platonic friendships and community involvement over romantic entanglements. It is a personal stance that emphasizes autonomy and self-sufficiency. There is no single definition or universally agreed-upon set of rules for being suhtevaba; it is a subjective experience defined by the individual.