MaySeptember

MaySeptember is a term used to describe a romantic or sexual relationship in which there is a substantial age difference between the partners. The younger partner is typically in their 20s or 30s, while the older partner is in their 40s or older, though the exact ages and gap can vary widely. The expression draws on the seasonal metaphor of May (youth and renewal) and September (maturity and the approach of autumn).

Used primarily in English-language discourse, MaySeptember is closely related to, and sometimes used interchangeably with, May–December romance. The concept applies to heterosexual and same-sex couples and can involve long-term partnerships or brief encounters. Legal and ethical considerations focus on consent and the potential for power imbalance given the age difference.

Public and academic discussions around MaySeptember frequently address social stigma, media representation, and differences in life stage, interests, and priorities. Proponents argue that compatibility and mentorship can benefit both partners; critics point to risks such as imbalance in life experience, differing goals, and social scrutiny.

In culture, MaySeptember relationships appear as plot devices in films and literature, and are a recurring topic in journalism and commentary on dating norms. The term contributes to broader conversations about age, sexuality, and power in intimate relationships.

See also: Age gap in relationships; May–December romance.