Flirting

Flirting is a set of social signals used to indicate romantic or sexual interest in another person. It combines verbal and nonverbal cues and is usually framed as playful and reciprocal, allowing participants to explore mutual attraction while maintaining social comfort.

Common verbal cues include light compliments, playful banter, and witty remarks. Nonverbal cues include sustained eye contact, smiling, open body orientation, leaning in, and relaxed touch when appropriate and consented. Successful flirting generally relies on reciprocal interest and reading the other person’s signals, rather than relying on a single tell.

Contexts and variation: norms vary widely by culture, setting, and relationship status. What counts as flirting online may involve messages, emojis, and pacing; in person includes proximity, touch, and body language. Different relationships have different boundaries.

Ethics and safety: Flirting should respect consent, boundaries, and power dynamics. If the other person signals disinterest or discomfort, it is important to disengage. Flirting can be misinterpreted or unwanted; rejection is a normal part of social interaction.