wheedle

Wheedle is a verb meaning to persuade or coax someone into doing something by using flattery, guile, or sweet-talking. The act is often described as manipulative and subtle, and the term usually carries a negative or humorous connotation. People wheedle by appealing to vanity or self-interest rather than presenting direct argument. For example, "She wheedled her way into the exclusive event by complimenting the organizer" or "They tried to wheedle him into lending the car."

Origin and etymology: The origin of wheedle is uncertain; the word appears in English in the Early Modern period, but its precise roots are not established. It is likely a native English formation rather than a loanword.

Usage: The verb is commonly followed by "into" or used with an implied object, as in "wheedled into signing" or "wheedled a concession from the referee." Noun forms are rare; the gerund "wheedling" is commonly used to refer to the act. Synonyms include cajole, coax, inveigle, and blarney; however, wheedle implies a degree of insincerity or manipulation more than ordinary persuasion.