sidekoedes

Sidekoedes is a term used within certain online communities to describe a specific type of interpersonal relationship dynamic. It generally refers to a situation where an individual is aware of and tacitly accepts that their romantic partner has another primary romantic relationship that they are not directly involved in, nor do they have access to, but is nonetheless considered a significant connection by the partner. This is distinct from polyamory, where all parties are typically aware of and consent to all relationships within the dynamic. In sidekoedes, the individual often has a subordinate or secondary role in their partner's romantic life. The term itself is a portmanteau, combining "side chick" or "side piece" with "koede," a Japanese word that can imply affection or connection. The usage and acceptance of this dynamic vary widely, and the term can carry connotations of emotional complexity and potential for imbalance. It is important to note that this is not a formally recognized relationship structure and is primarily a descriptor used within informal online discussions and subcultures.